Nothing is more fulfilling than knowing Who(I am capitalizing ‘W’ intentionally) you wish to be and having life reflect that back to you. When you live Who you are, your life is full of expansion, new vistas, passion, and an underlying excitement as you anticipate what wonderful things are coming next. Why? Because Who you are is so much more than who you are not, and life can’t help but to reflect that back to you.
So often, people live who they are not and because of this their life is full of things that do not reflect Who they truly are. They have a job that doesn’t reflect Who they are. It may provide an income, but it doesn’t fulfill them. Much of the job consists of things they really don’t want to do. They may be in a relationship that doesn’t reflect Who they are. They are comfortable in the relationship, but the love and passion is gone and the relationship has stopped growing to new levels of depth and connection. When you live who you are not, life often becomes more of a chore than an inspiration.
So the question is, how do you live Who you wish to be? The first step is to know Who it is you wish to be. This seems obvious but for many people it sounds easier than it is. The truth is many people don’t really know Who they wish to be. Beginning from the time they were born they were conditioned to be who they are not. They were taught to be who their parents thought they should be. Daddy wanted a boy instead of a girl and they were taught being a woman means being weak. They were told they should be a Doctor, when Who they are is more of an artist.
Every day, preferably first thing in the morning, take some time meditating or pondering on Who you wish to be. As you do so you will begin to reawaken Who you are. The more you reawaken Who you are, the more the energy of Who you are will enter into your life and be reflected back to you. Look at your life, does it reflect Who you wish to be? What part of your life is Who you wish to be? What part of your life is not?
Take a few minutes to take an inventory of your life. Ffind things that you can shift into alignment with Who you wish to be. Begin with small things, before trying to shift the big things in your life. What is most important is consistency. Everyday find at least one or two things you can do that are more aligned with Who you wish to be. As you do so, you will find more and more of your life begin to reflect back to you Who you are. As you consistently fill your life with Who it is you wish to be, life can’t help but to align to Who you are. Begin with small things and before you know it the bigger things in your life will fall into place.
The more you do this process, the more clarity you will have in knowing what you truly desire. You connect more and more with Who you truly are. The essence of Who you are is a powerful, loving, Divine being who is continually growing, expanding and evolving. As you live from this place, life can’t help but to mirror Who you are back to you. Then, hold on to your hat as your life becomes an exquisite adventure beyond anything you can imagine.
I look forward to your comments.
Kristopher
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July 10th, 2010 at 3:42 am
Very interesting subject and you’ve made some good points here:
May I just by my own experience:
A: What you are focused on, you get more of and
B: You are (or should be) the master of you’re own mind!
Btw: Thanks for stopping by – great to welcome new readers
December 30th, 2010 at 12:32 pm
Thank you very much for this post! I’m very interested in the law of attraction and am working at becoming a master of it! I like the title of your blog post because it reminds me that I want to live the life of my dreans and I know that it is possible!
It’s just those negative thoughts of mine that get in the way! I’m also learning that vibrations (good ones that is) have a lot to do with the manifesting of good things – I’m trying but I know those negative thoughts that come into my mind are not helping me at all and like Renny has commented – “you should be the master of your own mind” – advice that is good to see and one that I have to practice more!
June 27th, 2011 at 1:01 am
Excellent post/blog! Such things you share could be really inspirational! But I’d like to ask have you had such an experience that a good book/movie helped you discover your true self? I mean a good adventure story, with good quotes, wisdom could help many people? I remember what a great influence the movie Rocky had on some of my friends in the past, some of them woke up at 5-6 a.m. and ran and train their bodies just because they wanted to be like the famous “boxer”. That was something no teacher could make them do before!
Two kids of a friend of mine were so inspired when I told them my Tale Of The Rock Pieces, that they began to take a good care of their health and did exercises every day and tried to learn all the interesting facts for plants and animals’ life. Now, when they are shrewd youngsters, they still take a good care of their health and don’t drink and don’t smoke. And they still admire all the wonders we could discover in the flora and fauna, that’s what school and many teachers couldn’t do no matter how hard they tried…
I guess many people could share such expereince? Which led to amazing discoveries and finding of what one is capable of? Best wishes! Keep the good work going! Let the wonderful noise of the sea always sounds in your ears! (a greeting of my water dragons’ hunters).
August 18th, 2011 at 8:32 am
I’m thinking. So I AM…
I undrestood that the most importnt think is TO BE…
… talk to U…later…